Women in Abused Relationships

He Screams at you
He calls you names
He's always asking "WHY"
He slaps you
He chokes you
He criticizes everything you do
He talks over you (loudly)
He doesn't let you go anywhere
He talks so bad about your friends that you let them go

Does any of this sound familiar to you? Is this YOU?
You ask, Why is this happening to me? Especially from the person I love and he is supposed to love me back. Am I such an awful person that my loved one treats me like this? What have I done to deserve this?

So many unanswered questions you ask yourself and no Logical answer in return.
Oh wait!! Maybe if he is an alcoholic that could be the answer or EXCUSE he has for abusing you. So you go on day by day excusing it because "it's the alcohols fault" No Lady, that's not so No reason you should have to deal with being tortured from your loved one. Because guess what? On the days he doesn't drink...
it's the same thing!
You shouldn't be treated with abuse. Whether it is VERBAL, Mental or Physical. Abuse is abuse!

The saddest thing of all: This insidious repetitious cycle will break you so smoothly, there's an excellent chance you won't even realize you've lost yourself. For some people it may take years... but it will break you.
One day it will catch up with you if he hasn't already hurt you or killed you.
But it will brake you emotionally. Everything and anything you have ever enjoyed in life will totally be washed away.
You won't care whether the sun shines or not. You'll only find that all you want to do is SLEEP.
Yes, you heard me SLEEP. Because you are so Mentally and Emotionally drained that your mind doesn't function right any more and your hoping that SLEEP will make it better. That's all you really have left that is YOURS. Sometimes he tries to take that from you too.

If you are in a relationship and you feel violated;

If you feel like a prisoner in your own home;

If you feel like you are at fault for your partners behavior;

If you feel anxious, terrified, depressed about how you are being treated;

If you have lost yourself trying to make your partner happy;

you are in an abusive relationship period.